Your story seems like mine. Software developer is like a illusional job. Company said you work from 8 to 5pm but thats not what happened. You ll work even more to complete the job. When i was single, this is not a problem util i got married. Work from home for software developer is like putting you in the cage. You work all the time to complete tasks. They don't even care whether you are in your holiday or not. Task should be completed.